Co-Parenting Plans for the Summer
For many, the summertime is a breath of fresh air, but for divorcing couples with young children and those living at home it can present many obstacles, especially for newly divorced couples.
Managing shared custody of kids over the summer can be stressful as you and your ex-spouse work to ensure you both get to spend time with the kids. Here are some valuable pointers for keeping the lines of communication open with your ex:
Encourage early collaboration by incorporating your kids in planning to set expectations and get feedback.
Recognize transition anxiety: Children of all ages might get anxious during home changes. Recognize this and offer confidence and assistance during these times of change.
Be patient and pick your battles carefully: Give everyone involved grace and strive to avoid escalating situations. Place your children’s safety before petty arguments.
Honor the established plans: Follow through on the custody plans you, your ex-spouse, and your children have crafted together. Consistency in the agreed-upon arrangements fosters trust and stability for everyone involved.
Prioritize self-care: Use the time when your children are with your ex-spouse to engage in activities that rejuvenate and nurture yourself. Allocate some “me time” to relax and recharge, ensuring you maintain your well-being.
Remember, transparency and open-mindedness are crucial when managing a summer custody plan. By maintaining effective communication and considering the needs of everyone involved, you can navigate shared custody successfully.
Co-parenting is much more than a written agreement. It is found in how you act, treat, and speak to your ex. Take the high road and work together – your child’s emotional well-being counts on it, no matter their age.
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Contact us today to see how we can help preserve your family unit while working through the divorce process.
Note: This information is general in nature and should not be construed as legal/financial/tax/or mental health advice. You should work with your attorney, financial, mental health or tax professional to determine what will work best for your situation.
