Collaborative Divorce
What to Stop Doing in the New Year (If You Want Less Conflict)
As the new year begins, many professionals reflect on habits they want to build. Drawing on years of mediation practice, Shawn Weber, outgoing President of Collaborative Practice San Diego, examines several common patterns that tend to escalate conflict, even when intentions are good, and invites readers to consider what might be worth letting go. By…
Read MoreA More Supportive Way to Resolve Family Conflict: Interdisciplinary Mediation
By: Shawn Weber When families face divorce or other major transitions, one of the first and most overwhelming questions is often: “What process is right for us?” You may have heard about mediation. You may also have heard about Collaborative Divorce. Sometimes these options are described as very different — or even in conflict…
Read MoreThe Role of Collaborative Divorce: How It Can Help You
Traditional court divorces create winners and losers. One person wins, and everybody loses. A judge who doesn’t know you makes decisions about your life, your kids, and your future. Your lawyers treat each other like enemies instead of problem-solvers. Divorce court is not an environment that encourages healing. Here’s the truth: court-litigated divorces often feel…
Read MoreSimplifying Divorce: Why Filing a California Joint Divorce Petition Is a Smart Move
Divorce does not always need to turn into a fight. Weber Dispute Resolution’s blog on the California joint divorce petition makes a strong point for working together instead. Couples who file jointly can save time, reduce legal fees, and simplify the process. It demonstrates that both parties are committed to resolving issues without immediately resorting to…
Read MoreHow to Tell Your Children About the Divorce
Telling your kids about divorce feels overwhelming, but with the right approach, you can help them through this difficult transition. Your children need honesty, reassurance, and most importantly, they need to know this major life change isn’t their fault. Unlike traditional court battles, which often create adversarial situations, collaborative divorce maintains a peaceful and respectful…
Read MoreHealing After Divorce: Moving On and Finding Yourself Again
Divorce can feel like your world is crumbling, leaving you wondering how you’ll rebuild from the pieces. But here’s the truth – you have more strength inside you than you realize right now. Collaborative Divorce encourages respectful communication and mutual problem-solving rather than adversarial court battles. This approach reduces conflict, protects children from unnecessary drama,…
Read MoreHow to Tell Your Children About the Divorce – Join Us for the Divorce Options(R) San Diego Workshop, July 5
Get practical advice on how to approach the conversation with kids in a compassionate way. Join us for the next Divorce Options Workshop on July 5. Learn more about our workshops and RSVP here.
Read MoreThe Divorce Process: What to Expect Step by Step
Facing divorce can feel overwhelming, but there’s a more peaceful path forward. Collaborative divorce allows your marriage to end with respect, understanding, amicable co-parenting and cooperation. Unlike court-litigated divorces, which often escalate conflict, collaborative divorces bring together a supportive team focused on finding solutions that work for everyone involved. Your collaborative divorce journey begins with…
Read MoreCo-Parenting After Divorce: Tips for Effective Communication – Join Us for the Divorce Options(R) San Diego Workshop, April 5
Join us on April 5 for the next Divorce Options Workshop to find out how to create a strategy so that you and your ex can work together to raise your children after your divorce. Learn more about our workshops and RSVP here.
Read More10 Things You Must Know to Make Your Divorce Less Expensive!
By Karen Kaseno, CPA / ABV The following 10 things can make your divorce less expensive! 1. Provide documents to your attorney or forensic accountant/valuator when asked in a complete and organized manner. Piecemeal productions will be more time-consuming and more expensive. Do your best to gather a complete set of documents in an organized…
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