Why You Should Go to Therapy When Going Through a Divorce?

By CPSD Admin | Oct 13, 2021
parent consulting therapist for their daughter

Divorcing brings up so many emotions, from excitement to fear, from confidence to feeling lost, and so many other feelings in between. It’s hard to sort them out on your own. When we first meet with our potential clients, we share that each person, including the children, has access to a mental health professional when they use the collaborative divorce process. We like to share why it is important to seek mental health therapy during the divorce process. Here are a few thoughts: It sets an excellent example for your children that working on your mental health is important, and…

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Bill and Melinda Gates’ Divorce: Long-Term Marriage and Business Interests

By CPSD Admin | Sep 29, 2021

Intro by Shawn Skillin, Esq. If you are considering divorce and have been married for more than 10 years (a long-term marriage in California) or have business interests that you are concerned about. This blog from Cage & Miles addresses “permanent” spousal support and the division of a business in the context of the Bill and Melinda Gates divorce. Importantly, we may never know just what the divorce settlement in the Gates divorce looks like as they settled out of court. You have options when you get divorced and out-of-court processes like Mediation and Collaborative Divorce are private and confidential,…

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What Are the First Steps You Should Take In Your Divorce? – Join Us for Divorce Options San Diego Workshop, October 2

By CPSD Admin | Sep 20, 2021

Are you going through a divorce and not sure what your first step is?   Join us on October 2 to learn how the divorce process works and what you should be doing. Learn more about our workshops and RSVP here.

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The Importance of a Mental Health Professional in a Divorce

By CPSD Admin | Sep 8, 2021
woman talking with mental health professional

When you finally make the difficult decision to dissolve your marriage, your mind is likely going a mile a minute, and your emotional wellbeing is extremely compromised. This unhealthy combination can increase the chance of you experiencing depression and anxiety. When you utilize the collaborative divorce process, you are supported by a team of professionals one of whom is a mental health professional. This important team member can play a vital role in your family’s divorce journey. Here’s how: Assists everyone involved to be aware of and manage their emotions in a constructive manner Works with each spouse to identify…

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When Going Through A Divorce Who’s Responsible for Your Children’s College Education? – Join Us for Divorce Options San Diego Workshop, September 18

By CPSD Admin | Aug 18, 2021

Your child’s college education is an important part of your divorce process. It is one of the many financial aspects that need to be discussed with your collaborative divorce team.  Join us on September 18 to learn what steps you should take to help pay for your child’s college education. Learn more about our workshops and RSVP here.

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How Does a Financial Neutral Help in Your Divorce?

By CPSD Admin | Aug 11, 2021
couple meeting with a financial neutral

We all agree that divorce can be a crushing process. There are many To-Do items, emotional triggers, and financial decisions to consider. It can be overwhelming at times. But did you know that when you use the collaborative divorce process, you will have a team of experts at your disposal who can help you navigate through the proceedings and come out on the side with your family, emotions, and finances intact? Working with the financial neutral is one of the best decisions for you and your spouse. The neutral will review your financial landscape, crunch the numbers, and help you…

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Why You Should Go to Therapy When Going Through a Divorce – Join Us for Divorce Options San Diego Workshop, August 7

By CPSD Admin | Jul 21, 2021
crying lady sitting on grassland

Are you going through a divorce and need to work through your emotions?  Maybe it’s time to schedule an appointment with a therapist. Join us on August 7 to learn more about how therapy can help you through your divorce. Learn more about our workshops and RSVP here.

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Tips on How to Deal with the Stress of Divorce

By CPSD Admin | Jul 7, 2021
couple sitting on couch having misunderstandings

A divorce is often a life-altering experience for all involved. The scars that come from a separation can last a lifetime and even flow into the next generation.  Add in COVID-19, the protests, and the stress can be overwhelming. Unfortunately, the court system tends to exacerbate the animosity between the parties involved. It fosters a you against me mentality. If you’ve decided to separate or divorce, utilizing the collaborative divorce process can significantly minimize the collateral damage, allow you to be in control, stay out of court and keep your sanity. During this process, a team of experts work together…

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Divorce and Your Business – Join Us for Divorce Options San Diego Workshop, July 17

By CPSD Admin | Jun 23, 2021
financial experts working together

Are you a business owner going through a divorce?  Not sure how your divorce is going to affect your business. Join us on July 17 to learn how your divorce can affect your business and much more. Learn more about our workshops and RSVP here.

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Credit Cards and Divorce: Who’s Responsible

By CPSD Admin | Jun 9, 2021
stack of credit cards on table

Divorce brings many daunting and exhausting questions to try to answer, but it doesn’t have to be that way. Let me tell you why. When you choose the collaborative divorce process over a court litigated divorce, you and your spouse will have access to a team of experts, such as a neutral financial advisor, mental health professionals, child specialist, divorce coach and an attorney for each spouse. These divorce professionals will help both of you navigate your divorce in a more cost-effective and timely manner, all while keeping your family unit intact for the future. When we meet our clients…

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