Nine Holiday Tips For Divorced Moms, Dads, and Kids

Dec 5, 2013

Family holidays are held up to impossible standards by the media and our memories. Gatherings, gifts, meals and events are all expected to be picture perfect. Who could possibly live up to these standards? Add the realities of separation and divorce and the holidays become that much more difficult. As…

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Collaborative Divorce Sets Stage for Healthy Co-Parenting

Nov 9, 2013

When parents of minor children divorce, they cannot completely sever ties between them. They remain members of a family through their children. The goal of Collaborative Divorce is to help a divorcing couple define and implement the settlement that best meets the needs of their family, and learn new skills…

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Claiming ‘Head of Household’ Status, Dependent Children During Divorce

Nov 4, 2013

by Alex Kwoka, Attorney at Law, Law Office of Alexandra M. Kwoka If you are considering separating or divorcing,  and/or moving from the marital home with a child or children, thinking about how you will file your tax return is important. First:  When will you separate into two households? If…

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Division of Marital Assets in Divorce: Fairness and Respect

Oct 24, 2013

A recent Forbes Magazine article offers advice specifically to women about assets in a financial portfolio that they might overlook when working on the division of those assets in a divorce. From a practical standpoint, it’s true that people don’t always clearly identify or think about all of their “assets”…

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The Emotional Impact of Divorce

Oct 12, 2013

Divorce is a life change and transition that challenges the emotional, interpersonal, and cognitive functioning of those experiencing it. These changes impact all members of the family–not only the parents and the children involved, but also members of the extended family. Divorce is a life experience like no other. Divorce…

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Top Nine Collaborative Divorce Tips for Success

Oct 5, 2013

By Shawn Weber, CA State Bar Certified Family Law Specialist Past President, Collaborative Family Law Group of San Diego Board Member of Collaborative Practice California My life as a family law attorney changed with my first Collaborative Practice case. I was moved by the idea of leaving the adversarial process…

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What You Can Do to Reduce Attorney Fees and Costs and Finish Your Divorce Sooner

Oct 1, 2013

by Susan Rapp, CLS-F, Family Law Attorney There are a number of ways to resolve parenting, property, debt, and support issues in a divorce.  These methods include Collaborative Divorce, hiring an attorney and attempting to settle issues outside of court, going to court and litigating unresolved issues, and working with…

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Pacific Northwest Magazine: “Couples can divorce without drama”

Sep 19, 2013

CFLGSD member Constance Ahrons, Ph.D., rofessor emerita of the University of Southern California and the former director, Marriage and Family Therapy Doctoral Program, is quoted in a recent article written for Pacific Northwest Magazine, which appears every Friday as part of the Seattle Times. In the article, Dr. Ahrons explains…

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College Debts Delaying Marriage For Graduates

Sep 10, 2013

There is a new and surprising reason not to take on too much college debt. A survey by Harris Interactive conducted for the American Institute of CPAs found 15 percent of college graduates have postponed getting married due to their student loan payments. This is a significant number. Almost 39…

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Brave New World of Divorce: Alimony For Your Eggs?

Sep 7, 2013

Divorce is never a happy situation. But it can be especially difficult for women who would like to become mothers and face an expiration date on their fertility. Reproductive medicine provides many more options for people who wish to become parents. But this can also complicate a divorce. Fertility preservation…

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