San Diego Osteopathic Physicians Learn About Collaborative Divorce

By CPSD Admin | Nov 12, 2015

Collaborative Family Law Group of San Diego incoming 2016 president, attorney Myra Chack Fleischer, CFL-S, and board member Cinda Jones, CFP, CDFA, joined members of the San Diego Osteopathic Medical Association spoke at the group’s November meeting for a presentation on Collaborative Practice as an alternative to traditional litigated divorce. The presentation provided an overview of the process, introduced the members of the divorce team and how they work together with the couple, and the advantages of Collaborative Divorce as a more holistic approach, including privacy protection and the emotional well-being of the family. The Collaborative Family Law Group thanks…

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What If We Get Stuck Mid-Divorce?

By CPSD Admin | Oct 20, 2015

by Robin A. DeVito, Attorney at Law, Certified Family Law Specialist One of the most frequently asked questions by clients considering using the Collaborative process for their divorce is this: What if we get stuck? What if there are issues that simply cannot be resolved during the Collaborative process? Does court then become our only option? I recently concluded a case in which every issue was complicated. It was a high income, high asset case. We were able to successfully resolve all of the issues with the exception of the amount and duration of spousal support. Each party was set…

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Does ‘Separation’ Have to Mean Scorched Earth?

By CPSD Admin | Sep 26, 2015

by Meredith Brown, Attorney, Brown and Brown Most divorcing couples can agree on the day they were married but it is not uncommon for spouses to have very different ideas of when the marriage was “over.” Sometimes the dates expressed by spouses are years apart. How do couples set their date of separation? Why does it even matter? In California, property and debts accumulated by a married couple from their wedding day to their date of separation are considered “community property” to be divided equally.  Generally, once a couple has separated, their earnings, retirement plan contributions and employment benefits such…

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How the Divorce Process Might Change Your Standard of Living

By CPSD Admin | Sep 24, 2015

The decision to get divorced isn’t one people take lightly. Frequently it comes after months or even years of trying to make it work, and weighing your alternatives. In this recent column from the Huffington Post, experts including Collaborative Family Law Group of San Diego member Justin Reckers, Justin A. Reckers, CFP, CDFA and CEO of WellSpring Divorce Advisors shared the most important questions people need to ask themselves before moving forward and filing for divorce. Read the column here. If you have questions and need answers about your divorce options, contact the Collaborative Family Law Group of San Diego…

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Your Real Estate Options During Divorce (VIDEO)

By CPSD Admin | Sep 22, 2015

The financial impact of divorce on the family is one of the leading concerns couples have entering the divorce process. For most families, the family home is their largest single investment. What are you options? Should you sell your home when you divorce? Should you keep it and co-own it? What about renting it out? This can be one of the larger and more important decisions you need to make. Collaborative Family Law Group of San Diego member Justin Reckers, Justin A. Reckers, CFP, CDFA and CEO of WellSpring Divorce Advisors answered questions about issues focused on real estate concerns…

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Collaborative Divorce Featured on “Real Talk San Diego” Radio and Podcast

By CPSD Admin | Sep 15, 2015

Collaborative Family Law Group of San Diego member Meredith Lewis, attorney with the law firm Lewis, Warren & Setzer, introduced Collaborative Divorce and other forms of Alternative Dispute Resolution on the radio talk show “Real Talk San Diego” with host Jason Cash. Lewis explains how Collaborative Divorce is an especially good alternative for families with children to resolve their marital issues. “The satisfaction I have and more importantly my clients have when the divorce is finalized is much greater. Nobody has satisfaction when you go to court. Divorce is one of the most horrible things to go through. If you…

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The Baby Boomer Divorce and Why Collaborative Divorce Is a Good Choice for the Over 50 Crowd

By CPSD Admin | Sep 15, 2015

by Michele Sacks Lowenstein, Certified Family Law Specialist, Lowenstein Brown A P.L.C. Do you know that 25% of people getting divorced today are over 50? Do you know that getting a divorce late in life presents additional financial consequences? Do you know that people who divorce late in life are more likely than not to seek alternative to litigation? Divorce for those 50 and up has increased from 10% to 25% of all divorces. What’s behind today’s Baby Boomer divorce boom? Some theorize that as we grow older, lose our elderly parents and face retirement and the “empty nest” that…

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Realistic Expectations in Divorce: Do Leopards Ever Really Change Their Spots?

By CPSD Admin | Sep 15, 2015

by Shawn D. Skillin, Esq. Collaborative Attorney and Mediator As a mediator, I met with a Mediation couple today. I like both of them very much. We are the same ages, have similar interests and if I wasn’t their divorce mediator, I could be friends with each of them. But what struck me again today, was how divorcing spouses treat each other and annoy each other, and yet at the same time they find this surprising and frustrating. You are getting divorced. There are multiple reasons why you are getting divorced. Many of them boil down to that fact that…

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Poway Scripps Ranch Rotary Club Learns about Collaborative Divorce

By CPSD Admin | Sep 2, 2015

Collaborative Family Law Group of San Diego president Anna M. Addleman, CPA, CDFA, CFF, CFE; and attorney Myra Chack Fleischer, CFL-S, incoming 2016 President, joined members of the Poway Scripps Ranch Rotary Club at the September meeting for a presentation on Collaborative Practice as an alternative to traditional litigated divorce. The presentation provided an overview of the process, introduced the members of the divorce team and how they work together with the couple, and the advantages of Collaborative Divorce including privacy protection and the emotional well-being of the family. Thank you to Program Chairman Bill Stoudemire and President Pauline Getz…

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Back to School Tips for Divorced Families

By CPSD Admin | Aug 17, 2015

No matter how old your kids are or how many times you’ve been through it all as a parent, there is anxiety mixed with anticipation as kids head back to school this fall. Mixed feelings are natural at this time of year. There is extra stress and brand new school-related issues to deal with if you are newly divorced. Who is paying for what? What activities will the child get to be involved in? Who keeps an eye on homework assignments? Who does the school call if there is an emergency? These are issues that can be addressed in the…

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