Legal Myths About Divorce: What You Need to Know
Many people think a divorce is always fought out in court, with one side winning and the other losing. In fact, the idea that every divorce has to be hostile is one of the biggest myths about divorce. You and your partner actually have more control than you might realize.
Collaborative Divorce lets you both steer the process. Rather than digging in your heels and fighting over every detail in open court, you work together, privately, with a team of respectful divorce professionals who all want the best for your family. This means you can avoid a lot of the stress and expense that often come with traditional divorce litigation.
Another myth is that Collaborative Divorce is only for couples who agree on everything or get along perfectly. The truth is, it works for all kinds of families and issues. You don’t have to be on the same page about everything – just willing to try for a fair solution and transparency. Your concerns and priorities stay front and center, and everyone’s voice – including your children’s – matters.
Collaborative Divorce saves money and time for everyone, especially when you compare it to the costs of court battles. Instead of being adversarial, the process is focused on solving problems so you and your partner can move forward.
Another myth that we hear often is that there is no room for the mental health of the family, or opportunities for divorce and co-parenting coaching.
Finally, your divorce doesn’t have to be public. In Collaborative Divorce, your personal details stay private, and your family’s dignity stays intact. This approach is designed to preserve meaningful relationships, especially when kids are involved, and helps everyone heal and rebuild.
Collaborative Practice San Diego is a nonprofit, multi-disciplinary referral network of independent professionals of attorneys, mental health professionals and financial advisors working together to learn, practice, and promote Collaborative Processes for problem solving
and the peaceful resolution of family law issues in regard to co-parenting, with an eye toward preserving the emotional, as well as the financial assets of the family. Contact us today!
Note: This information is general in nature and should not be construed as legal/financial/tax/or mental health advice. You should work with your attorney, financial, mental health or tax professional to determine what will work best for your situation.
